I apologise for this lengthy gap between my "posts". My energy levels have been somewhat reduced, perhaps due to not being able to be very active. I'm still not allowed to drive but, my efforts to master using the sleep apneoa machine, indicate that the restrictions could be relaxed in a month's time.
For weeks, while the garden was covered in snow or ice, I only ventured outside when Reg came to work here for the day. He took me shopping, to the hairdresser's and for medical appointments. Changing daily doses of Aspirin to Warfarin has been undertaken gradually, and I am now consuming a regular amount, which will not need checking for a month, instead of weekly. Hopefully, I am now less at risk of having a stroke, and being a right nuisance to look after!
In between running me around in the Volvo, Reg has planted, or repotted, hundreds of bulbs for me to have diplayed in the garden in a couple of months time, or to sell in order to raise some funds for the Marie Curie Care charity. For several years now we have been able to regularly change our floral displays with the minimum of effort, because there are over seventy 2 litre plastic plant pots sunk into the ground, around the single storey extension and along the length of the raised bed under the long pergola. Hundreds of daffodils and tulips are now settled into dozens more 2 litre pots, awaiting their turn to brighten up my world. Daffoldils choose to bloom over a period of several months, and hopefully I have selected four different varieties that might flower in succession, though "nature" doesn't always co-operate. Last year the Pinkeen tulips that should have appeared after the daffodils matured together, due to bad weather delaying the Narcissi.
When I last posted news, back in January, the first flowers were just appearing on the Witch Hazel that is in front of the window by the kitchen sinks. It is now a blaze of yellow and orange, the loveliest it has ever been, but you'll have to wait until this wind abates before I can take a photo of it. (I am particularly thinking of you, dear Dan, over in the States, as I write this.)
"In spite of the wind" Tony's much-loved snowdrops are appearing in more and more clusters along the bank. It was just a year after his death when I received the first excited 'phone calls to say that some of the snowdrops that mourners had taken home after his funeral to plant in their own gardens had flowered.
I thank those thoughtful folks for sharing their feelings with me.
The past fortnight has been a struggle, but I am supported by such good friends and I want to particularly mention Valerie, whom I have now known for over forty years, as we met in 1969 when we joined a training course for mature students who wanted to become qualified teachers. She has kept in touch with me every day over the past year - a real life line.
I will sign off with this little card that my webmaster Mike made for me so beautifully a year ago. My family helped me to attach one to each of the little pots of snowdrops that my youngest granddaughter Daisy gave out after Tony's funeral on the 15th of February 2010. We all had a lovely, memorable day, recalling the life of a remarkable man that we had had the pleasure of meeting.